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Kex
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...Wow. I enjoyed Jonclubs but I think my eyes may have rolled out of my head at those two videos. I don't usually say this, but someone seriously needs to step away from the internet for a while to cool down.

I do feel that the EMH guys pulling out the older definition of "queer" was kind of backpedaling, though. Few people use the word that way any more, and "AKA queer" is pretty obviously derogatory. Just my .02 on that part specifically; I could always be wrong, and that's fine too.

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Kex wrote:
...Wow. I enjoyed Jonclubs but I think my eyes may have rolled out of my head at those two videos. I don't usually say this, but someone seriously needs to step away from the internet for a while to cool down.

I do feel that the EMH guys pulling out the older definition of "queer" was kind of backpedaling, though. No one uses the word that way any more, and "AKA queer" is pretty obviously derogatory. Just my .02 on that part specifically; I could always be wrong, and that's fine too.


I don't think Vince was saying that's the way they were using it, I think he was just trying to say that Jon assumed he knew exactly how they were using it, in a homophobic sense, so that makes him guilty too for making such assumptions and actually trying to take offense to them.

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Kex wrote:

I do feel that the EMH guys pulling out the older definition of "queer" was kind of backpedaling, though. No one uses the word that way any more, and "AKA queer" is pretty obviously derogatory.


Yah, but not sexually... I don't consider it to have a PRIMARY sexual connotation, actually, just like straight.

Actually, I once interviewed this famously bi-musician, and his boyfriend was with us during the interview. So the musician is very... over the top, and his bf more down to earth. When my best friend - who is bi as well - asked me how the singers bf was, I said he was a pretty straight person. offensitiy commenced. Laughing I could clear that up pretty quickly, but I always think people who think queer and straight mean sexuality actually disregard where those words come from.
Most people who call themselves "queers" don't want to be seen as "homo" or "bi-sexual". Why is up to them, but I think "being queer" is more of a mind set, a la "being punk". So to call somebody out as "queer" is way different to calling somebody out as being a "homo".

And even if - the entire thing was IG anyways, and even directed at a friend. And I have met quite some people who call their friends a lot worse ("You are my N-word", anyone?). So who cares?

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In no way was anything the boys said ever offensive, meant offensive, or actually offending.


...I get what you're trying to say, but it was offensive. I got thrown out of the video when Evan said that - you know how your stomach drops out at a nasty surprise? It was sort of threatening and disappointing, like "oh no, not you too, but you seem awesome and DDD:". And I know I'm not the only one who felt that way, because people complained to them about it and they issued those apologies.

It just sucks when it seems like everybody's going "okay, this word for what you are? That's inherently an insult. Suck it up." It's worse when someone you admire does it.

I was relieved when they apologised, because I don't want them to be the kind of people who go "that's so gay amirite". And it was awesome of them to apologise, because it shows that they do care and that it was a slip of the tongue rather than Evan being prejudiced. People make mistakes, it happens, and sometimes the best you can do is own up to it, make amends and learn. So no, they didn't mean to be offensive. But it's pushing too far in the other direction to pretend that they weren't offensive at all.

Kex wrote:
I do feel that the EMH guys pulling out the older definition of "queer" was kind of backpedaling, though. Few people use the word that way any more, and "AKA queer" is pretty obviously derogatory. Just my .02 on that part specifically; I could always be wrong, and that's fine too.


Yeah, that made me go D: as well. Especially since it was "aka a queer", which doesn't even fit the old definition. I was kinda "nooo Vinnie whyyy" when I read that message.

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I think "being queer" is more of a mind set, a la "being punk". So to call somebody out as "queer" is way different to calling somebody out as being a "homo".


"Queer" is also what a lot of LGBT people call ourselves. It's pretty widespread, though I dunno how well-known it is outside of LGBT circles. It's meant "homosexual" for a pretty long time, though.

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What gets me is that Jon is giving everyone who doesn't take offence to it a bad name. I'm bi and haven't taken offence in the slightest. It's ridiculous. Friends always joke around and call each other names. My friends calls me all sorts in jest for being bi but I've never once turned around and got annoyed with them for it. I know they mean it as a joke and that they would never use queer or dyke in an offensive manor towards me or anyone else. If Jon is aiming this only at the EMH guys for joking around between each other then is he planning on emailing EVERYONE on youtube who has called a friend a queer on camera?
As far as I'm concerned he's trying to start a hate campaign towards EMH that'll fail miserably and when he doesn't get attention from that, he'll try something else.
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Compulsory Basket wrote:

"Queer" is also what a lot of LGBT people call ourselves. It's pretty widespread, though I dunno how well-known it is outside of LGBT circles. It's meant "homosexual" for a pretty long time, though.


Yeah, it is kind of well-known, but I know as many songs by Brit-Pop acts who used lyrics like "because she's queer" or "oh, he's so straight!" that don't have a sexual meaning, but rather one regarding the personality of a person.
Michael Stipe once said he'd call himself queer, because that is how he feels, regarding to his personality and sexuality - sort of different and on all sides.
At least that is my broad understanding - if somebody may have a narrower understanding of it, that person may find it offensive. But then again, I have met many guys who called their friends with H and N words. To me, it's about one thing: either you see yourself as somebody being able to be attacked or to see yourself as somebody who's happy, no matter what kind of skin color, sexuality or heritage you have. Whenever somebody calls me a kraut (or worse), I laugh and tell them to eat a Pumpernickel Schnitzel... which they find sort of offending... Wink

And Didz: very well said.

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I dunno, I think it's one of those words that has generally evolved past its meaning over time and become another meaningless word, so long as it's meant that way. Clearly, Jeff isn't gay, as far as we know; Admittedly, it looks bad, but I've been called, and called others, queers. There's no hate behind the word, it's just a way to say "welp you look like an idiot." Same way that "nigga" has evolved, for the most part, past derogatory and into something far more complex. Half of the people I know use it in a friendly or nonchalant manner.
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TheNightmareComplex wrote:
I dunno, I think it's one of those words that has generally evolved past its meaning over time and become another meaningless word, so long as it's meant that way. Clearly, Jeff isn't gay, as far as we know; Admittedly, it looks bad, but I've been called, and called others, queers. There's no hate behind the word, it's just a way to say "welp you look like an idiot." Same way that "nigga" has evolved, for the most part, past derogatory and into something far more complex. Half of the people I know use it in a friendly or nonchalant manner.


Exactly. Plus, the fact Jon actually said something very negative about the crew's OOG real life personalities, which obviously isn't true, in a REVIEW first, without them ever addressing that, is proof enough for me that he was just looking for them to tap into some kind of trap.

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Yeah, "queer" is still used by enough 'phobic people as a deliberate insult that using it "innocently" is still kind of a big deal. And using "you're such a foo" as a slur when they know that you are not, in fact, a foo is inherently degrading toward foos.

But people are not angels, and Jeff handled the situation in a respectful and respectable manner. Vince's response was...urgh. I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt and assuming he was too riled up to think things through, but the rule of thumb holds: appeals to the dictionary are the hallmark of a sucky argument.

Still, no hard feelings toward the guys. Language doesn't always reveal intent, and I think they're good guys at heart.

I can think of some ways Evan could do penance, though.

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Also, I like how Jon claims they were breaking the fourth wall

In an alternate-reality game

A game that takes place

In our alternate reality

A game where we, and the hybrids, are all in-character.
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Mattwan, what the hell is a foo? Laughing

And you may just have blown my mind if Evan was hinting at ALL THE SLASH IN THE OT-THREAD... which, if he did, may be the most hilarious thing ever!! Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

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I don't know about all of this, I thought that last video was a little reasonable...
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Mattwan, what the hell is a foo? Laughing

And you may just have blown my mind if Evan was hinting at ALL THE SLASH IN THE OT-THREAD... which, if he did, may be the most hilarious thing ever!! Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing


"Foo" is the queen of all variables, the signifier to encompass all signifieds. It's venerable consort is "bar". Smile

And yes, Evan must redeem himself by enacting all the slash ever. Very Happy

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Mattwan wrote:

"Foo" is the queen of all variables, the signifier to encompass all signifieds. It's venerable consort is "bar". Smile


WHAT THE HELL DO Y-

Hey, wait a minute... Foo... Bar...

HEY, I AM GERMAN, WHAT THE FU... I FEEL FUCKING VIOLATED!! YOU TESTOSTERON-FUELED DOUCHEBAG YOU!!! GO EAT A PUMPERNICKEL SCHNITZEL SALAT!!! Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad

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Oh god, don't let Jon read that...

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Yeah, it is kind of well-known, but I know as many songs by Brit-Pop acts who used lyrics like "because she's queer" or "oh, he's so straight!" that don't have a sexual meaning, but rather one regarding the personality of a person.


Oh, cool. I've never run across "queer" or "straight" being used for anything but sexuality, whether in conversation or in songs (except ones from like the 1940s or something), so if someone said "you're queer" to me I'd be more likely to think they were talking about my sexuality than my personality (though obviously context would be important). I don't think it's the word that's offensive, but the way it's used. Mattwan said it a lot better than me with the "foo" example.

In fact I'm just going to pretend that I worded my whole post as well as Mattwan did. >.>

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To me, it's about one thing: either you see yourself as somebody being able to be attacked or to see yourself as somebody who's happy, no matter what kind of skin color, sexuality or heritage you have.


I see myself as someone who's happy with my sexuality and whatever, but who doesn't enjoy being made to think that someone I like and admire looks down on me because of who I find attractive.

...hopefully I haven't worded any of this stupidly, I've read it over but I need to rush away to make dinner. XD

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