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[MichaelisHere]

 Haters and Helpers

[SHODAN]

Re: Haters and Helpers

[DrStevzious117]

You see, silly boy, that we are human beings. We have opinions, likes, dislikes, etc. If we like your stuff, well then we like it. If we don't, we don't. It doesn't make you look any better to just call out the people who don't like your stuff and try to make them regret it.

Please take some criticism for once.

[MichaelisHere]

[DrStevzious117]

[ChildOfAtom]

Well... at least you've learned enough to know you shouldn't put this in your own thread...

Here's the thing that currently separates you from the "grown-ups" that publish these series: They know how to ignore their "haters" and let it roll off their backs.

Have you ever read the comment thread on any given EMH video? For every positive comment there is a negative one. A sampling from the last video: "Acting is way to joker-tryhard and comes off as just that" "I look forward to "tomorrow's" video in about a month." "Evan can't act for shit" "i dont really know whats going on anymore in this. i feel like im missing eps but im not. its like its gone off its plot." "I'm just having a hard time understand what it's about anymore." "the characters in this series stick out cause there is no plot at all" "Remember when this used to be good?"

Do you see Jeff on here whining about his haters? No. Because he acts like a grown-up, takes what advice is worthwhile and ignores the rest.

Learn THAT lesson.

[MichaelisHere]

[ChildOfAtom]

If you've had enough criticism in your life at 14, you have a LONG LONG road ahead of you. Every day is full of criticism over something you've done, or didn't do, from teachers, parents, bosses, lovers, clients, friends, family... even strangers.

[DrStevzious117]

The one that really got me was

"This was a really great performance, and I dont want to seem like I'm bashing the series, I've been a fan from the start.
But hey
Remember when this was about Slenderman?"

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[DrStevzious117]

[MichaelisHere]

[Cougar Draven]

[chasechan2050]

Kid, I'm prob'ly going to echo everyone else by saying this:

You are bound to get hate, no questions asked. Everyone gets hate, whether you like it or not. It's really about how you handle that hate.

It's a hell of a lot easier to avoid hate online than it is offline. But, regardless, handle it more adult like than complaining that someone hates something you do. Though, again, it's inevitable. Someone, somewhere is going to either hate you or hate something that you do, but just roll with it and shrug it off. You can't please all the people all the time, so don't try to.

Also, criticism =/= hate. It's criticism, something to help you better understand whatever it is that you're doing and how you can improve upon it. Take criticism and use it, but if someone has nothing constructive to say (aka, is just there to hate whatever it is that you're doing), just ignore it. It'll be hard depending on the situation, but it's a lot better than complaining that you have haters.

Also, bullying isn't criticism and I feel bad that, as what I assume, you're being bullied offline and it's prob'ly in school. I would say go to a councilor or something and try and get your bully problem taken care of, if at all possible.

I do hope that this helped >.>

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