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Cu Roi
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Joined: 30 Jul 2004 Posts: 123
Thankyou all. I'm not sure what to say...I wanted you all to know what happened to my family, and I'm warmed by the response.
Anything you can do to help my niece is above and beyond. Warm wishes and caring thoughts might seem...weak and empty...but I assure you that they are not. They mean so very much...
We're doing as well as can be expected. Tia is doing well, and is in the care of my younger brother and both of her grandmothers. She has an extensive extended family which I'm sure will be growing exponentially.
She is a remarkable child...I think I'm quoted as saying that she's "scary smart". My mind is a constant whirlwind of thought and emotion lately, and it makes the strangest connections. When I first heard the 911 call, right there amongst the horror, anger, outrage and sorrow, I thought to myself,"This sounds like the Sleeping Princess." It's that thought that reminded me of you. You all are my friends, and though I regret having to burden you with this, I know I would want to know.
So please forgive me.
The www.tiahernlen.com website is currently just a placeholder, with only the barest information on it. This site will soon evolve. We are going to use the impetus from this tragedy to change things. This kind of horror happens to far too many.
Take Care.
-Zac 0(_)+
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 10:17 pm
krystyn
I Never Tire of My Own Voice
Joined: 26 Sep 2002 Posts: 3651 Location: Is not Chicago
Oh, my. Our thoughts are with you. Take care. Tia is amazing.
Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 10:24 pm
vpisteve
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Joined: 30 Sep 2002 Posts: 2441 Location: 1987
Your family continues to be in all of our thoughts and prayers. We all grieve with you.
The online community is amazing, as the fund we set up at ARGN is at over $1400 and growing. I'll be in touch to find out from you where best to send it all.
Thanks so much to everyone who has contributed so far. Money is the last thing a family needs to worry about at a time like this.
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 10:33 pm
ariock
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Joined: 11 Aug 2004 Posts: 762 Location: SF East Bay
Thoughts and Prayers and Best Wishes Ouroboros
My first thought when I heard the call was also of the Sleeping Princess. It was a very odd feeling. And then when I heard that sweet girl was related to one of our friends...I am so sorry for your and her loss. She is an amazing girl.
I wish there was more we could do for her and you all. Take care.
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 12:08 am
Clayfoot
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Joined: 19 Aug 2004 Posts: 785 Location: Warner Robins, Georgia, USA
TiaHernlen.com is online.
Look for The Ouroborous's father on The O'Reilly Factor tonight (Wednesday, April 13th) at 8:00pm. If I can get the PVR card to work, I'll record it and post a link back here.
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Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2005 8:04 pm
jamesi
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Joined: 25 Sep 2002 Posts: 2195 Location: Canadia
This story touched my wife and I deeply. Our thoughts are with you.
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Posted: Wed Apr 13, 2005 10:28 pm
rose
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Joined: 26 Nov 2003 Posts: 4117
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You all are my friends, and though I regret having to burden you with this, I know I would want to know.
ouroboros - we are your friends and none of this is a burden to us. Please don't feel you need to apologize. I know we only wish that there were more we could do to help you. We are concerned about you , and your well-being , as well as that of your niece.
Please stay in touch. We will reach out to you as well. Don't hesitate to post anything that you need help with, even if it is "just" a word of support. If we can't give each other that, then we don't really have a purpose.
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Posted: Thu Apr 14, 2005 12:02 pm
water10
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Joined: 31 Aug 2004 Posts: 712 Location: EvadeEvadeEvade
...... Just, can't find words. Take care.
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Posted: Thu Apr 14, 2005 5:17 pm
Anton P. Nym
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Joined: 25 Jul 2004 Posts: 550 Location: London, Canada
water10 wrote:
...... Just, can't find words. Take care.
I've been in the same boat ever since I heard.
Best thoughts and wishes to you and your family, Ouroboros.
-- Steve wishes he knew what else to say.
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Posted: Thu Apr 14, 2005 7:22 pm
Atrophied
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Anton P. Nym wrote:
water10 wrote:
...... Just, can't find words. Take care.
I've been in the same boat ever since I heard.
Best thoughts and wishes to you and your family, Ouroboros.
-- Steve wishes he knew what else to say.
It is the same with me. I know it sounds lame, but I really cannot express my feelings on this matter through words.
It is impossible to imagine such a loss, and therefore I really don't know what to say in an attempt to ease the suffering that you must certainly be going through.
All that I can say is that I am, and will be, thinking of you and your family, and I sincerely hope that in time you will recover, at least partially, from this terrible tragedy. I know that I speak for everyone here at Unfiction when I say that we have all been touched deeply by your experience in some way, and I wish you all the best for the future.
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Posted: Thu Apr 14, 2005 7:32 pm
Clayfoot
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Joined: 19 Aug 2004 Posts: 785 Location: Warner Robins, Georgia, USA
Tracy Hernlen is Tia Hernlen's paternal grandfather. Bill O'Reilly interviewed Tracy Hernlen on The O'Reilly Factor on Wednesday, April 13th.
Click here to watch Tracy Hernlen on The O'Reilly Factor
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Posted: Fri Apr 15, 2005 9:49 am
Cu Roi
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Joined: 30 Jul 2004 Posts: 123
Spread the word. I cannot thank you all enough. This board doesn't show the efforts that the community has exerted.
Please. Take care of your own. One deadbolt could mean everything.
You all are amazing.
I am the one who is speachless.
-Zac 0(_)+
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Posted: Sat Apr 16, 2005 1:08 am
poorsod
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Joined: 18 Apr 2005 Posts: 163 Location: London
oh no, that's awful. Just hearing about it makes me want to break down and cry for that young girl's terrible experience.
I'm 14, and I'd probably have hands too shaky to press the keys on the phone, let alone be able to relate exactly what happened to the operator. That girl showed more courage than I could in a situation like that.
I really would donate, if only I had any money, but my thoughts are with her.
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 1:14 pm
Incitatus
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Joined: 01 Oct 2004 Posts: 487 Location: Austin, Texas
National Fund Raiser Name* Posting...
After organizing all of the data I believe we need to go ahead and get the ball rolling on the fund raiser, I have spoken at length with Rose and Ouroboros to get the next step out of the way.
Beginning the organization as a simple and small group action to raise money for a single named benifitiary, there is one final step that must be cleared. Ultimatly the organization is planned to expand nationally being launched, maitained and grown from this community and our respective affiliates.
The working Plan:
Small events held/organized widley by members within the community. Members wishing to help/assist in the organization, need only sign up by forwarding your contact information to myselfor other singed members. Our goal is to raise money to help support Tia finaincially for things like school, food, clothing, ect.
Small events mean Local events and grass-roots solicitation. Local radio stations (particularly those who have played the 9-1-1 tape) schools, even local buisnesses from the mom-and-pop stores to the corperate chains are all likly sponcers/hosts for events that can be anything from a coin drop to a car wash to even a foot-race.
But simply for the sake of progress, it will begin small, and in the next two weeks plans and paperwork will be drafted to expand. Anyone interested in helping to sign as a member is asked to please contact me via email [incitatus4(at.)gmail(dot.)com] or via phone [845-313-9328]
Now, the first major group efforted step is to come up with a name.
To that end Ouroboros wanted us to come up with a name for the charity.
Suggestions So Far:
Tia Hernlen Foundation
Tia's Buddies
Tia's Angels
(Again, mods, I am not constantly capable of getting online access, so if you could modify in additional suggestions as they appear that would rock)
Updates to the list can be found on the first post in this thread.
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Posted: Tue Apr 26, 2005 7:50 pm
Incitatus
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Joined: 01 Oct 2004 Posts: 487 Location: Austin, Texas
Don't all jump at once.
(additions from the Hudson Valley):
Fresh Start (for Tia)
[Please note, my phone has failed, the problem is expected to be resolved by no later than friday May 6th.]
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Posted: Mon May 02, 2005 9:09 pm
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